
That question was recently posted on Facebook by a fellow friend of mine and I was shocked to see that the answers were split across the board, 50-50.
Here are some of the answers:
- At a four way stop the car to stop first would have the right of way. If it were a two way stop then the car crossing traffic (left hand turn) must yield to on coming traffic and so the right hand turn car would have right of way.
- The car turning right. Left turn must yield.
- If you got there first, you have the right of way, regardless of the turn and regardless of how long have to wait. That said, I try to make contact with the other driver–hand in my windshield, outside the window, flash my lights–and make/let the other guy go first just to make sure there are no “fuzzy agreements”.
- I remember driving class: the car on the left yields to the car on the right. Been 50 years, maybe it’s changed.
- The car turning right has the right of way.
Well, there can only be one right answer in this case and I was pretty sure I knew it. A trip to the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration website confirmed my answer. The rule to remember is, First to Stop, First to Go.

Now, maybe it’s just in our area, although I’m guessing this problem reaches beyond our town. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve nearly been hit because a driver apparently did not know this rule.
It’s obvious now that some people truly don’t know that this is a rule. Pass it along, share this post/graphic, and let’s get the word out!
It’s also important to note – never insist on taking the right-of-way. The law does not allow anyone the right-of-way. It only states who must yield.
When a driver is legally required to yield the right-of-way but fails to do so, other drivers are required to stop or yield as necessary for safety. So, if another driver does not yield to you when he or she should, let the other driver go first.
Remember, First to Stop, First to Go!

Maria Egan
Thursday 21st of March 2024
This is a good refresher and more detailed than I remember from my preparing for the driver's test days.
Deborah D
Sunday 17th of March 2024
Thanks for the information. This is good to know.
Sandy C.
Sunday 17th of March 2024
Well, I knew there was a reason I never learned to drive. This is one of them. I've seen SO many accidents, especially at 4 way stops around here. I even hear them crashing in the middle of the night.
laura
Wednesday 20th of May 2015
Your example is of a 4 way stop and is correct, however when at a 2 way stop it's different. The person turning left at the 2 way stop should yeild to the other car turning right or going straight. Which I read your example as being at a 2 way stop, not 4 way. http://www.mlive.com/news/index.ssf/2011/06/traffic_talk_who_has_the_right.html
Alison
Wednesday 20th of May 2015
This is such a serious problem where I live! Our city decided to remove over half our stop lights a few years back and replace them with four way stops in order to save thousands of dollars each year. All should have been well and good, but very few people obey the signs or have a clue what they are supposed to do even though it has been published in our newspaper several times now. I'm not sure why it's so difficult or why so many people have different ideas of what the laws are when it comes to a stop sign.